Je Regrette!

I am so sorry, my dear friends, for not having posted anything in a while, I plan to rectify that situation immediately. As this blog grows, I would like to incorporate different perspectives of people with disabilities from around my community and eventually from around the world. Here is the first one. Enjoy!

Name: Matthew Curcio
Hometown: St. Davids, PA (I consider EU my hometown for now)
Age: 19
Disability: Muscular Dystrophy

Occupation: I am a young collegian
Hobbies: I write. I read. I created Eastern University's Radio Station.

What is it like to have a disability where you live?

Well, not easy. Living an independent College lifestyle and trying to balance relationships, hobbies, class work and having a disability is just a struggle. It is just an added aspect of life I have to deal with. It is pretty rough some days but I have maybe the most beautiful support system at this college =]

What types of difficulties do you face?

I have a disability that affects my whole body. So every one of my muscles are much weaker than that of others. I use a scooter to get to classes, I fall sometimes, I need help up somedays, I experience pain through out my body fairly often. My disability effects me in the classroom, in the dorm...actually in every capacity. It is a huge chunk of the person I am. But I am okay with that.

What words of wisdom would you like my readers to have?

Learn this about individuals with disabilities...Sure it may be cool to look up to someone with a disability because they seem strong to you in living with a disability. That is fine and okay. But DO NOT overlook the fact that a disability (especially for those who have been disabled from birth) is a NORM in that persons life. For me it is all I know. I do have a strong heart and resolve but this is my reality and my day to day. I am surely as much of a person as anyone else. It is also very important to note that when developing a relationship with a disabled individual do not forget to look beyond their disability and look for other aspects in their life where they may be struggling or hurting. A disability does not encompass the whole.

What is the dumbest thing someone ever said or done to you/what was your response?

Hahahaha what I great question...One time I fell on a family vacation...I was just walking and I tripped over an exposed pipe on a sidewalk. Several bystanders ran to my rescue. One exclaim...HE MAY HAVE A BLOOD-CLOT! MAYBE IT WAS A HEAT STROKE?....I sat on my butt and I laughed audibly. I said I was okay and I got back up with the help of my parents. My day just continued like nothing ever happened.